Living well after cancer


Looking after yourself and others

Page last updated: November 2024

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It’s important to look after your wellbeing after cancer treatment. This may mean making big lifestyle changes and embracing new health practices. Or it may mean a small increase in exercise or a healthier diet.

Coming up with a plan for how to look after yourself can help restore a sense of control. Research suggests that a healthy lifestyle (in combination with conventional treatment) can stop or slow the development of many cancers.

Some people who have had cancer may be at an increased risk of other health problems, such as heart disease, osteoporosis, stroke or type 2 diabetes.

The lifestyle changes recommended for cancer prevention can also help reduce your risk of developing other health problems.

Reducing your risk of recurrence

There are several ways you can adapt your lifestyle to help reduce the risk of cancer coming back or a new cancer developing. 

Quit smoking

Be SunSmart

Be a healthy body weight

Be physically active and sit less

Drink less alcohol

Eat well

“I was completely overwhelmed by all the lifestyle advice I received from doctors once treatment was over. I decided to focus on one change at a time. I started by doing 100 steps in the backyard until I gradually built up to a 30-minute walk five days a week and strength training on two days. It took me almost six months to get there, but it was really satisfying to feel in control of my wellbeing.” Beth

Impact on family and friends

After treatment is over, your family and friends may also need time to adjust. Research shows that carers can also have high levels of distress, even when treatment has finished.

Your cancer diagnosis may make people around you think about their own priorities and goals. And, like you, they may be concerned about the cancer coming back.

People close to you can have a range of reactions when your cancer treatment ends. They may feel:

  • relieved that you’re okay
  • convinced that everything will go straight back to normal for you
  • happy to focus on others and themselves again
  • confused, especially if your relationship has changed
  • upset that they are not in regular contact with the health care team
  • pleased that cancer is no longer the main topic of conversation
  • worried about what the future holds
  • afraid that every little ache or pain means that the cancer has returned
  • scared they will get cancer themselves
  • a need to protect you and not let you do things for yourself.

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Looking after others

After treatment finishes, your family and friends may not fully understand what you’ve been through.

Let them know that you understand it is hard for them as well. You may want to tell them how much you appreciate all they have already done to help you. 

Encourage your loved ones to seek support. They can call our compassionate cancer nurses on 13 11 20 or  Carer Gateway on 1800 422 737. 

More information for carers

Coping with children's needs

“I was not as active before cancer as I am now. I walk three or four times a week. It gives me extra energy and helps clear my mind.” Rima

Family history and cancer risk

If you’ve had cancer, it doesn’t mean that your children will also get it. Most cancers are caused by a build-up of abnormal cells. These cell changes cannot be passed on to your children, so they won’t have a higher-than-normal risk of developing cancer.

However, having a strong family history of cancer may increase the risk of developing some cancers. This may be caused by inheriting a faulty gene linked to cancer, or by shared environmental or lifestyle factors.

A family history of cancer means that there are a number of closely related family members diagnosed with the same cancer or with more than one cancer, often at a younger age.

Only about 5% of all cancers are linked to inherited faulty genes. If you are concerned, talk to your doctor. They may refer you to a family cancer clinic or genetic counselling service.

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