Facing end of life


Overview


If you have had cancer diagnosed at a late stage, or if the treatments have stopped working and remission is no longer possible, you may be told that the cancer is end stage or terminal. Everyone copes in their own way with this news. Your reaction may depend on your age, family situation, cultural background and spiritual beliefs.

Getting help and support

This may be the first time you consider end-of-life issues. Take your time. Read what seems useful now and leave the rest until you’re ready. If you or your family have any questions, call Cancer Council on 13 11 20. Ask about joining a support group or our  online discussion forum to connect with others who have a similar experience. 

You may find information about living with advanced cancer or understanding palliative care more useful at this time. The podcast, The Thing About Advanced Cancer,  provides insights to help you navigate through these challenging times.

Support services for carers and people facing end of life

Hearing the news

Learning that you may not have long to live is shocking news. Even if you are aware that the cancer has spread, hearing that you are dying can be extremely upsetting. We all know that death is a natural part of life and that it will happen to us all one day, but most of us hope that we won’t die anytime soon.

Realising that death is close can be frightening and hard to believe. For some people, it may be a relief. You may have questions right away, or you might need time to absorb the news and come to terms with the expected outcome of your disease (prognosis).

“It’s a hugely shocking thing, but we are all mortal and we all live as if we are not. And that’s one of the hardest things I think; we live as if life will go on forever and we’re so shocked when we find out that it doesn’t.” Susan

How you might feel

Telling others

Do people who are dying need to be told?

Voluntary assisted dying

Thinking about ending your life

 

Common questions about dying

Knowing that you have a short time to live raises many questions. Sometimes, you may not be sure if you want to know the answers. Look at the following information when you feel ready.

How long have I got?

How does palliative care help?

Who will I see for my care?

Could complementary therapies help me?

What does 'dying well' mean?

What is dying going to be like?

How will I know that the end is near?

What if I feel distressed?

 

Facing End of Life

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